Forum Etiquette. Please, Let's keep things clean.
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Carhartt said:
Bro,
I will try to review my post from now on... but please do bare with me cos I only primary six education and only know how to cut trees..... I am sure some are too! So dun know how to "watch our language and writing" sometimes... but I promise I will improve...
Ghostrider
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Maybe the creation of a men's room would help....
I apologies for those "colour TV" race queen photos. Not phonography is what I thought when I posted them. At this age with the net, getting porn off the net isn't that tough anymore...or has it ever been.
But those pic that I got, I sort of got them off the email and thought that it was quite "rare" to see hence I share.
But if some people (especially the ladies) are offended. My apologies. I would be more careful in selecting pictures when posting them up. Jokes however, have to be taken with a pinch of salt....its meant as a joke...and too bad that most of the jokes going around the net is those "rated" jokes. I think on that part...the ladies would be gracious to bear with us on this....after all...laughter is the best cure for working blues. Nothing cheers up my day better with a good joke.
I apologies for those "colour TV" race queen photos. Not phonography is what I thought when I posted them. At this age with the net, getting porn off the net isn't that tough anymore...or has it ever been.
But those pic that I got, I sort of got them off the email and thought that it was quite "rare" to see hence I share.
But if some people (especially the ladies) are offended. My apologies. I would be more careful in selecting pictures when posting them up. Jokes however, have to be taken with a pinch of salt....its meant as a joke...and too bad that most of the jokes going around the net is those "rated" jokes. I think on that part...the ladies would be gracious to bear with us on this....after all...laughter is the best cure for working blues. Nothing cheers up my day better with a good joke.
Azrielsc
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Ghostrider,
There is no need to any apologies nor pointing fingers at anyone. We, as the Admin, have raised some points and forumers have done the same too and as long as we keep on point, post in the relevant folders, conduct ourselves with reason, the moderators would not be doing so much moderating.
Enjoy yourself here!
There is no need to any apologies nor pointing fingers at anyone. We, as the Admin, have raised some points and forumers have done the same too and as long as we keep on point, post in the relevant folders, conduct ourselves with reason, the moderators would not be doing so much moderating.
Enjoy yourself here!
nightshade
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For a male-driven site dripping with testosterone, this is pretty decent. Info's good; GM's fun; language generally OK; and not much sexism and racism and other -isms. 
As for those pics of race queens? Heck, isn't sex a fact of life? If any female comes here expecting soft-focus pics of angels with halos, she oughtta get her brain examined... :screwedu:
As for those pics of race queens? Heck, isn't sex a fact of life? If any female comes here expecting soft-focus pics of angels with halos, she oughtta get her brain examined... :screwedu:
hear hear...nightshade said:For a male-driven site dripping with testosterone, this is pretty decent. Info's good; GM's fun; language generally OK; and not much sexism and racism and other -isms.
As for those pics of race queens? Heck, isn't sex a fact of life? If any female comes here expecting soft-focus pics of angels with halos, she oughtta get her brain examined... :screwedu:
MW: I would appreciate it if you could respond with a more constructive message rather than sprouting a one-liner to fan the flames.
I agree with nightshade to a certain point.
We will have objectivity when it comes to viewing certain posts and threads, and i agree that while females should not expect to see "angels with halos", i would prefer that harrassment would be kept to a minimum (or none at all, of that matter.)
This being said, there are tolerances which we are all able to accept, and the admin/moderators will only step in if drastic measures need to be taken. So far, our forum has been really quite lax in dealing with such issues. We treat everyone as equal adults and only provide "soft" reminders to nudge back the intention back into focus.
Until the day that i rate this forum with a R rating, we will do the best possible to keep this forum "clean enough" for the GENERAL public.
Likewise, any complaint, suggestion, comment will be looked into and reviewed, and we do welcome those.
I agree with nightshade to a certain point.
We will have objectivity when it comes to viewing certain posts and threads, and i agree that while females should not expect to see "angels with halos", i would prefer that harrassment would be kept to a minimum (or none at all, of that matter.)
This being said, there are tolerances which we are all able to accept, and the admin/moderators will only step in if drastic measures need to be taken. So far, our forum has been really quite lax in dealing with such issues. We treat everyone as equal adults and only provide "soft" reminders to nudge back the intention back into focus.
Until the day that i rate this forum with a R rating, we will do the best possible to keep this forum "clean enough" for the GENERAL public.
Likewise, any complaint, suggestion, comment will be looked into and reviewed, and we do welcome those.
MW said:hear hear...nightshade said:For a male-driven site dripping with testosterone, this is pretty decent. Info's good; GM's fun; language generally OK; and not much sexism and racism and other -isms.
As for those pics of race queens? Heck, isn't sex a fact of life? If any female comes here expecting soft-focus pics of angels with halos, she oughtta get her brain examined... :screwedu:
[/quote]ryan said:
Ryan,
May I ask what you meant by constructive message? Are u trying to say that for those that does not know how to write constructive messages shld nt post? Like I say, not everyone highly educated like some.... some are hokkien peng like me.. dun noe what is a constructive message how...??
End of the day, what we write are of harmless motives....
Hymics said:
Hymics,Hymics said:Ryan,
May I ask what you meant by constructive message? Are u trying to say that for those that does not know how to write constructive messages shld nt post? Like I say, not everyone highly educated like some.... some are hokkien peng like me.. dun noe what is a constructive message how...??
End of the day, what we write are of harmless motives....
Thanks for your point.
Constructive messages are messages which can help explain a point better in ways of your own opinion and examples.
Whether you're a hokkien peng or something..we should try to not post un-neccessary which can only make the problem worse. Like how we always say.. "don't add oil to fire.." but i know that you know this what!
By working together, only then we can get things done right?
Cheers!
Why are u accusing me of fanning whatever flames?? I find that highly aggressive and accusatory of you and would demand an explanation. Are u saying that I am a shit stirrer? Do u really wan me to name people who have done stupid things before and have been sided with?? DO you??
MW,
I'm not accusing you of fanning flames.However, I was suggesting to you, to kindly post a more constructive post rather than a one-liner. This thread is already quite "hot" as you may realise.
I have not accused you of being a shit stirrer. I have never accussed anyone of being a shit stirrer.
I do not find my post aggressive, but right now i find you're trying to be aggressive with me.
If you want to name people, please go ahead, and put the threads here. What kind of stupid things?
I have admitted that this forum does require a clean up, but i have not clamped down hard on anyone, so far, in this past 4 years.
All i am trying to do, is to make this place a better place for everyone. We are taking steps from now onwards to ensure this.
I do not see a point in bringing up the past. I have not targetted anyone, and i have admitted my own mistakes.
Do let me know your views.
I'm not accusing you of fanning flames.However, I was suggesting to you, to kindly post a more constructive post rather than a one-liner. This thread is already quite "hot" as you may realise.
I have not accused you of being a shit stirrer. I have never accussed anyone of being a shit stirrer.
I do not find my post aggressive, but right now i find you're trying to be aggressive with me.
If you want to name people, please go ahead, and put the threads here. What kind of stupid things?
I have admitted that this forum does require a clean up, but i have not clamped down hard on anyone, so far, in this past 4 years.
All i am trying to do, is to make this place a better place for everyone. We are taking steps from now onwards to ensure this.
I do not see a point in bringing up the past. I have not targetted anyone, and i have admitted my own mistakes.
Do let me know your views.
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ACSCAB2
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Dear everyone,
wa, I hope i did not stir up shit or anything along dat line; my post was strictly to air my thoughts n it resulted in so many posts (like Hellfire not happi wif me being old etc etc etc).
It is sincerely not easy being a moderator handling people fm all walks of life with diverse views n perceptions. Maybe we shld all cool it yeah? Honestly, i see no big issue in bmw.sg. So many strong friendship fostered here throughout the years.......let's not spoil it bcos some lady cannot accept certain comments yeah? also, i agree we shld all exercise restrain in our posts but tis is veri veri subjective.
ok, meetup tis Sunday yeah! Good Weekend.
Ivan
wa, I hope i did not stir up shit or anything along dat line; my post was strictly to air my thoughts n it resulted in so many posts (like Hellfire not happi wif me being old etc etc etc).
It is sincerely not easy being a moderator handling people fm all walks of life with diverse views n perceptions. Maybe we shld all cool it yeah? Honestly, i see no big issue in bmw.sg. So many strong friendship fostered here throughout the years.......let's not spoil it bcos some lady cannot accept certain comments yeah? also, i agree we shld all exercise restrain in our posts but tis is veri veri subjective.
ok, meetup tis Sunday yeah! Good Weekend.
Ivan
Pls check your initial post, ua re saying I am fanning the flames..now u say u are not?
I am a harmless person who just wan to have fun and I happen to FULLY agree with nightshade..is that wrong in anyway? Isn't this what this thread is about?
As for those stupid things...u and I know what we are talking about..
I do appreciate what the moderators here have been doing and never have I interfered with that..and I agree with Sam that the moderators have been very nice and not hard at clamping down on OTs and what not... HOWEVER, this thread was started to make a certain point and as what Kenntona said, targetted at certain group of people and this was due to some "complaint"... I happen to belong to THAT group of people FYI so I hope u understand why I feel so much about this thread..or maybe you don't..but nevermind
I am a harmless person who just wan to have fun and I happen to FULLY agree with nightshade..is that wrong in anyway? Isn't this what this thread is about?
As for those stupid things...u and I know what we are talking about..
I do appreciate what the moderators here have been doing and never have I interfered with that..and I agree with Sam that the moderators have been very nice and not hard at clamping down on OTs and what not... HOWEVER, this thread was started to make a certain point and as what Kenntona said, targetted at certain group of people and this was due to some "complaint"... I happen to belong to THAT group of people FYI so I hope u understand why I feel so much about this thread..or maybe you don't..but nevermind
Racebred
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since the meetup is this sunday let's have a nice drink and talk about cars instead of saying who's right and who's wrong, coz right from the start, there's no finger pointing anyway. it's all general reminders. nobody's been accused of any wrongdoings right.
i will chiah one large coke. pls bring your own straw. 8)
i will chiah one large coke. pls bring your own straw. 8)
MW,
Yes, i have said.. "MW: I would appreciate it if you could respond with a more constructive message rather than sprouting a one-liner to fan the flames."
Let me apologise to you on that. I'm sorry to have said that. It was in the "heat of the moment". But i will not edit my thread.
I understand why you feel so strongly about this thread, and trust me i do.
But do you understand how much i feel for this whole forum? And it's not just me, it's the people like Axl and the older members who have painfully broken up with BCOS, but are just quietly watching on the sidelines.
I do not wish for that to ever happen again!
I'm not targetting anyone, even i am guilty of some posts and threads in the past. I hope to have cleared that up.
I hope to be able to meet up with you and the group, soon to discuss about how we can run our forums better, because seriously, i do not want our forum to degenerate and like what Ivan has said, most importantly, lose important friendships over the years.
Let's resolve this over a drink and dinner soon?
SMS/Call me 98413138.
Yes, i have said.. "MW: I would appreciate it if you could respond with a more constructive message rather than sprouting a one-liner to fan the flames."
Let me apologise to you on that. I'm sorry to have said that. It was in the "heat of the moment". But i will not edit my thread.
I understand why you feel so strongly about this thread, and trust me i do.
But do you understand how much i feel for this whole forum? And it's not just me, it's the people like Axl and the older members who have painfully broken up with BCOS, but are just quietly watching on the sidelines.
I do not wish for that to ever happen again!
I'm not targetting anyone, even i am guilty of some posts and threads in the past. I hope to have cleared that up.
I hope to be able to meet up with you and the group, soon to discuss about how we can run our forums better, because seriously, i do not want our forum to degenerate and like what Ivan has said, most importantly, lose important friendships over the years.
Let's resolve this over a drink and dinner soon?
SMS/Call me 98413138.
Racebred - one large coke not enough. But we can talk about Fiona Xie's buxom bodykit while I chew down SMYuen's McNuggets.
Hellfire - "Knn u always sibeh hiao..." I will report you to admin for the profanity. Unless you offer the ABC satay again...... But I like your comments "......posters be mindful of others regardless of serious or non-serious discussions...readers be tolerant of the views of others also regardless of serious or non-serious discussions." Swee.
Ghostrider - no worries, bro. Don't mean to bring up your thread, only to illustrate a discrepancy of judgement. Keep those pix coming. Can send to my email if deemed inappropriate.... Don't worry about your jokes. Keep them coming.
Nightshade - "For a male-driven site dripping with testosterone, this is pretty decent. Info's good; GM's fun; language generally OK; and not much sexism and racism and other -isms. As for those pics of race queens? Heck, isn't sex a fact of life? If any female comes here expecting soft-focus pics of angels with halos, she oughtta get her brain examined..." You can share the coke and nuggets with me on Sunday.
Cheers All.
Hellfire - "Knn u always sibeh hiao..." I will report you to admin for the profanity. Unless you offer the ABC satay again...... But I like your comments "......posters be mindful of others regardless of serious or non-serious discussions...readers be tolerant of the views of others also regardless of serious or non-serious discussions." Swee.
Ghostrider - no worries, bro. Don't mean to bring up your thread, only to illustrate a discrepancy of judgement. Keep those pix coming. Can send to my email if deemed inappropriate.... Don't worry about your jokes. Keep them coming.
Nightshade - "For a male-driven site dripping with testosterone, this is pretty decent. Info's good; GM's fun; language generally OK; and not much sexism and racism and other -isms. As for those pics of race queens? Heck, isn't sex a fact of life? If any female comes here expecting soft-focus pics of angels with halos, she oughtta get her brain examined..." You can share the coke and nuggets with me on Sunday.
Cheers All.
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