Signs she's dating you for your money

[nYteMarE]

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Being in a true relationship doesn't mean you need to dig deep into your pockets all the time -- you don't have to rack up your credit card bills to impress your date. Just when you thought the date went well, did she abruptly give you the boot? That could be because she knew you're not as well off as she thought you were. Check out how you can spot a gold digger and get rid of one before she starts sucking you dry...

 

[nYteMarE]

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She never pays for dates
While guys paying on the first date is common etiquette, girls, by right, would offer picking up the tab or splitting the bill thereafter. If she doesn't, even after a few dates, then she might be eyeing for your money. Test her by telling her you forget your wallet and see how she reacts to it. If she starts rolling her eyes or shows signs of disinterest after that, this is a red flag you need to watch out for -- especially if she suggests expensive fine dining for each and every date.

She asks about your financial status on your first date

Besides talking you into spending lavishly for dinner, she also shows a vested interest in your wealth. Instead of asking what you enjoy about your job, she probes about your salary or the type of car you drive. Some gold diggers do it more subtly and they hide their true emotions well. And she might pull a 180 after knowing that you aren't as loaded as she thinks you are. It is even a better dead-giveaway that she's a gold digger if it's on your first date.

 

[nYteMarE]

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She only wants expensive gifts

Kick your creativity up a notch and make a small-but-thoughtful gift for her. A girl who truly likes you would be impressed with that no matter what because to her, it's the thought that really counts. But if you're dating her and things have to always involve hefty price tag to make her happy, she might be looking for a free ride, not your love.

She relies on you for money

Besides expecting you to foot the bill for each meal, she also demands you to take care of her shopping or monthly bills. Helping her handle them once in a while is okay but if she threatens break-up when you stop doing so, beware -- she's just not that into you. Your date might be looking for a sugar daddy to finance her lifestyle and probably a temporary one at that.

 

[nYteMarE]

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She has only dated rich guys in the past

This may not be a sure-fire sign that she's only into your money. But if you also spot other redflags, she's highly likely a gold digger. Take note of her belongings, if she owns an expensive car or flashy jewelleries but still expects you to fork out money for her spendings, she's probably one of those who wants to claw at your cash account.

She's not interested in getting a job

All she cares about is her mani-pedi, how shiny her hair is or her collection of designer purses. She's so engrossed with her appearance as she wants to attract potential sugar daddies. And she tells you she has no intention of getting a job. If you need to work your backside off to fund her sprees and she shows no sympathy for you, consider ditching her before she leaves you for another sugar daddy after sucking you dry.

She's never satisfied

She tells you about how generous her bestie's boyfriend is or how she wishes she had those things. A girl who truly likes you wouldn't want you to break the bank dating her. If she's not happy with who you are, chances are the relationship is not going to turn out good anyway. She's just not worth your time and effort.

 

[Mockngbrd]

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[nYteMarE]

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i tell jamie.

 

[Haze]

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i tell jamie.

Hahahahaha.... Good idea...

 

[MW]

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How to spot one? Easy...

 

[Mockngbrd]

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i tell jamie.

jamie noe ish not her

 

[zorro]

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I just wonder how they do it...Limited position possible...

How to spot one? Easy...

 

[MW]

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I just wonder how they do it...Limited position possible...

This one you have to ask Ken...

 

[clara25]

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Choose to defer certain parts...some parts maybe true but not totally

 

[hitmee]

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financial security ranks quite high for women.
love is no longer like what it used to be.

just like menw ill go for cup sizes

 

[kenntona]

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She came into BMW-SG forum and takes ride from Totoseow or Triple M or anyone not in a BMW

Besides expressing interests in cars, she also shows a vested interest in owners of exotic cars. Instead of asking what we enjoy about our cars, she probes about who's who and/or the type of car we drive and created 15 pages of welcoming posts. Some gold diggers do it more subtly and they hide their true emotions well. And she might pull a 180 after knowing that you aren't as loaded as she thinks you are. It is even a better dead-giveaway that she's a gold digger if it's on your first date.

This part Toto asked me to write one....

 

[zorro]

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Interesting article ,,,who could that be? Btw what is DILF?

 

[clara25]

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She came into BMW-SG forum and takes ride from Totoseow or Triple M or anyone not in a BMW

Besides expressing interests in cars, she also shows a vested interest in owners of exotic cars. Instead of asking what we enjoy about our cars, she probes about who's who and/or the type of car we drive and created 15 pages of welcoming posts. Some gold diggers do it more subtly and they hide their true emotions well. And she might pull a 180 after knowing that you aren't as loaded as she thinks you are. It is even a better dead-giveaway that she's a gold digger if it's on your first date.

This part Toto asked me to write one....

So if I take ride from toto means I gold digger or not? Coz I never sit in Lamborghini leh...I tortoise in the well n poor;p

 

[kenntona]

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So if I take ride from toto means I gold digger or not? Coz I never sit in Lamborghini leh...I tortoise in the well n poor;p

Not you lah, you track you love cars you are not in here for the same reasons lah.......

Nabey it's just a joke lah !!!

 

[kenntona]

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Btw what is DILF?

The complement of MILF

 

[nYteMarE]

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still don't get what is D

 

[zorro]

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let me guess......D=Daughter???