Sad story... BMW to WRX...

jackmok

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Dear frds,

Its a very long sad story...

I actually posted earlier in that I wanted to get a E46 PFL model. And finally I found one (COE till 2019, selling 48k). The problem is I need to sell my 1yr plus Honda stream first as i am using Maybank as same financing (onli they finance COE car) I have to persuade my wife for weeks b4 she agrees to sell off our family car. Btw I hav a 2yo son. So after viewing n test drove the E46, I love it! And placed 1k deposit. The seller gave me 2 weeks to sell my stream n get my finance approve for the E46. So i quickly post on sgcarmart. one day i went AML, walked past a dealer tat says can consign cars there. So I asked his help. He agreed. But the consign price is too low. He is a nice guy. I tot price was good nowadays but not true, or maybe i was overwelm by buying my dream car. I wan to quickly let go the stream, so I sold low to another dealer who called me,so i and top up 6k. And since tat 1st AML dealer is a nice guy, i ask him to get loan frm maybank for me and he do the rest of transfer and paperwork for the E46, so he can earn the comm.

On the nite i pass my stream to the other dealer, my wife nego wif the E46 seller to handover the car to us on the same nite as we hav no car, she agreed. We drove our last journey w our comfy MPV to her landed house, i was so excited. My wife handover 8k downpayment to her, and my wife drove the stream w my 2yo boy, i happily drive the E46. just few metres frm his house, the fan belt broke. The seller's husband agreed to repair for me, so in the end, we handover the stream, and took cab home.

The nxt day evening, i went to alexandra wif the seller's husband to collect the car, gd to go. Hwever haffway thru, broke dwn again. I called tow truck. The following day, my mech told me its fuel tank empty, but the fuel gauge spoilt, showing 1/4 left. So my mech fixed it.

That very nite, the seller wans to change her mind abt middleman (dealer). She doesnt wan dealer as she wans to deal w us directly. My wife therefore arrange the dealer n we go to her house w all necessary docs to let her sign to show sincerity. The couple were v reluctant in the 1st place as they afraid dealer wil run away w the money frm maybank. So I suggested writing a 38k post dated cheque to her. if the dealer dont pass her the 38k cheque frm Maybank, then she can claim frm me. So fair and square, she agreed. She passed her ic to dealer and we r ready to transfer ownership the nxt day.

I happily drive home the E46 w my wife, it was 10pm. I ask my wife go slp, while i wan to WASH the car swee swee!!! then suddenly my wife called me at 11pm, say the seller don feel safe and wans to take back her ic. i say WTF!!! NVM, the next day, the seller sms me says she wans me to get loan frm maybank myself!!! WTF again!!! evrything is almost done and she chooot pattern like that!!!wah i canot take it. I told her off and says I wil return her car n we call off the deal. she agreed. i took back 1k deposit and 8k downpayment.

So i was car-less, MPV gone, dream car gone... I took MRT w my wife n kid on weekends...

One day my wife says, the dealer got a WRX, good condition, many mods, ask me go see see. So we went. At west coast car mart, I saw a blue Rex, JDM 2.0 semi-auto. i can see that my wife reali needs a car, and the 2 agent kept pushing me persuading me. I initially gave excuses i got other cars to view. then they continue pushing, my wife kaypo say she got bring cheque book, can put deposit. then i LL kena presurrised, i agreed to place dep... Yes I like powerful car, Rex is good, but this one is fully mod w super loud Apexi Exos, bigger turbo, bigger intercooler, 4 defi, got the pssshhh sound, Boost control, lowered racing coilovers, CF front n rear bonnet n boot. Sibei thiong ah! For goodness i m a family man leh.... In the end sold my nice comfy MPV wif this kind of car...

i am damn sad and disapointed w my wrong wrong wrong moves... Reali sway... Now I am stucked with the Rex for at least 1 yr. its a super downgrade... but I everyday still surfing this forum and sgcarmart see got other E46 for sale, hehe... I will not give up my dream!!! I was so damn close, everyday I reali couldn't slp well. i felt so sori for my wife n kid to tahan the loud exos, no joke, its too loud... But i felt bad when my son asked, "Daddy, our car car leh?", then I told him, "Sori son, daddy sold off le...", the glad part is, my son replied, "Daddy, I like subaru..."... pengzzz ah.... anyway my son likes all sorts of cars...

Its a lesson learnt... dont be too rush into things. If time can go back, I will try to persuade the seller to proceed w the deal... haizzzz...

Any bro/sis, selling E46, I prefer renewed COE, year 2000/2001 model can be Pre FL or FL, Can be valvetronic, doesn't matter, as I going to drive for another 10 yrs,I hav lots of plans for it, it will b my classic mobile...

Thanks for reading...
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

Thanks for sharing your story...................



hope you get your E46 soon.......
cheers
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

damn...really sorry to hear this. But look on the bright side, at least you'll be the coolest dad! Trust me, haha. Anyway, keep pushing on man, patience, one day you'll be sitting in the driver's seat of your beautiful E46,wife and son sited comfortably at the back of the spacious BMW. Totally awesome! ;)

The time will come!
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

Don't make impulsive decisions. Car is a long term indulgement. Look ahead 2 years and project if this car will be with you.

If the answer is yes, it's safe to buy. Else, give it a pass.
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

Sorry to hear your story bro..

If it makes you feel any better, I really think your Rex is waaay cool though. :D I'd love to have a car like that, but my case opposite.. my wife will kill me.. :oops:

jackmok;579615 said:
Dear frds,

Its a very long sad story...

I actually posted earlier in that I wanted to get a E46 PFL model. And finally I found one (COE till 2019, selling 48k). The problem is I need to sell my 1yr plus Honda stream first as i am using Maybank as same financing (onli they finance COE car) I have to persuade my wife for weeks b4 she agrees to sell off our family car. Btw I hav a 2yo son. So after viewing n test drove the E46, I love it! And placed 1k deposit. The seller gave me 2 weeks to sell my stream n get my finance approve for the E46. So i quickly post on sgcarmart. one day i went AML, walked past a dealer tat says can consign cars there. So I asked his help. He agreed. But the consign price is too low. He is a nice guy. I tot price was good nowadays but not true, or maybe i was overwelm by buying my dream car. I wan to quickly let go the stream, so I sold low to another dealer who called me,so i and top up 6k. And since tat 1st AML dealer is a nice guy, i ask him to get loan frm maybank for me and he do the rest of transfer and paperwork for the E46, so he can earn the comm.

On the nite i pass my stream to the other dealer, my wife nego wif the E46 seller to handover the car to us on the same nite as we hav no car, she agreed. We drove our last journey w our comfy MPV to her landed house, i was so excited. My wife handover 8k downpayment to her, and my wife drove the stream w my 2yo boy, i happily drive the E46. just few metres frm his house, the fan belt broke. The seller's husband agreed to repair for me, so in the end, we handover the stream, and took cab home.

The nxt day evening, i went to alexandra wif the seller's husband to collect the car, gd to go. Hwever haffway thru, broke dwn again. I called tow truck. The following day, my mech told me its fuel tank empty, but the fuel gauge spoilt, showing 1/4 left. So my mech fixed it.

That very nite, the seller wans to change her mind abt middleman (dealer). She doesnt wan dealer as she wans to deal w us directly. My wife therefore arrange the dealer n we go to her house w all necessary docs to let her sign to show sincerity. The couple were v reluctant in the 1st place as they afraid dealer wil run away w the money frm maybank. So I suggested writing a 38k post dated cheque to her. if the dealer dont pass her the 38k cheque frm Maybank, then she can claim frm me. So fair and square, she agreed. She passed her ic to dealer and we r ready to transfer ownership the nxt day.

I happily drive home the E46 w my wife, it was 10pm. I ask my wife go slp, while i wan to WASH the car swee swee!!! then suddenly my wife called me at 11pm, say the seller don feel safe and wans to take back her ic. i say WTF!!! NVM, the next day, the seller sms me says she wans me to get loan frm maybank myself!!! WTF again!!! evrything is almost done and she chooot pattern like that!!!wah i canot take it. I told her off and says I wil return her car n we call off the deal. she agreed. i took back 1k deposit and 8k downpayment.

So i was car-less, MPV gone, dream car gone... I took MRT w my wife n kid on weekends...

One day my wife says, the dealer got a WRX, good condition, many mods, ask me go see see. So we went. At west coast car mart, I saw a blue Rex, JDM 2.0 semi-auto. i can see that my wife reali needs a car, and the 2 agent kept pushing me persuading me. I initially gave excuses i got other cars to view. then they continue pushing, my wife kaypo say she got bring cheque book, can put deposit. then i LL kena presurrised, i agreed to place dep... Yes I like powerful car, Rex is good, but this one is fully mod w super loud Apexi Exos, bigger turbo, bigger intercooler, 4 defi, got the pssshhh sound, Boost control, lowered racing coilovers, CF front n rear bonnet n boot. Sibei thiong ah! For goodness i m a family man leh.... In the end sold my nice comfy MPV wif this kind of car...

i am damn sad and disapointed w my wrong wrong wrong moves... Reali sway... Now I am stucked with the Rex for at least 1 yr. its a super downgrade... but I everyday still surfing this forum and sgcarmart see got other E46 for sale, hehe... I will not give up my dream!!! I was so damn close, everyday I reali couldn't slp well. i felt so sori for my wife n kid to tahan the loud exos, no joke, its too loud... But i felt bad when my son asked, "Daddy, our car car leh?", then I told him, "Sori son, daddy sold off le...", the glad part is, my son replied, "Daddy, I like subaru..."... pengzzz ah.... anyway my son likes all sorts of cars...

Its a lesson learnt... dont be too rush into things. If time can go back, I will try to persuade the seller to proceed w the deal... haizzzz...

Any bro/sis, selling E46, I prefer renewed COE, year 2000/2001 model can be Pre FL or FL, Can be valvetronic, doesn't matter, as I going to drive for another 10 yrs,I hav lots of plans for it, it will b my classic mobile...

Thanks for reading...
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

sucks to hear that man....but ur wife and son likes the wrx more though.. :D:D think of it this way..drive a race car for a year..then sell it for bmw..who knows..maybe in that 1year..u get promoted or something..strike toto...then 1year later can buy E46 M3..woop woop...

that subaru u bought sounds fun to drive anyways lol
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

=) I don't think its a sad story. Just the way life went about it's own course. Enjoy the the pssst pssst turbo now for you may miss it in the NA BMW. But if you like it, then you will be spurred to get the TT BMW =) Anyway I enjoyed your story. Very narrative and fun! Thanks!
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

1st things 1st... i'm pretty surprised the missus liked the Rex... hahahaha.... u got yourself a keeper man!

The WRX is a pretty good car, I used to drive one b4 switching to a 335. Fun to drive, though it's quite obvious, it's lacking in the comfort dept. Try to get info on which workshop did up the WRX as u mentioned it's heavily modded. Helps in the troubleshooting if somethings goes awry.

If you need contacts for Subaru specialist workshops, let me know. Meanwhile, enjoy the boxer note :)
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

So sad u can't get your e46.
All BMW are sports cars. My avatar say one
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

Sorry to hear that bro. My partner teared when the buyer took our car away. But when she heard of the new car, she couldn't stop giggling. Hope you will have a fairytale ending soon. And YES, keep searching. Perserverance pays off in the end.
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

Lemme summarize your long story... just trying to make you feel better ok, don't flame me :D

jackmok;579615 said:
Dear frds,

Its a very long sad story...

I actually posted earlier in that I wanted to get a E46 PFL model. And finally I found one (COE till 2019, selling 48k). The problem is I need to sell my 1yr plus Honda stream first as i am using Maybank as same financing (onli they finance COE car) I have to persuade my wife for weeks b4 she agrees to sell off our family car. Btw I hav a 2yo son. So after viewing n test drove the E46, I love it! And placed 1k deposit. The seller gave me 2 weeks to sell my stream n get my finance approve for the E46. So i quickly post on sgcarmart. one day i went AML, walked past a dealer tat says can consign cars there. So I asked his help. He agreed. But the consign price is too low. He is a nice guy. I tot price was good nowadays but not true, or maybe i was overwelm by buying my dream car. I wan to quickly let go the stream, so I sold low to another dealer who called me,so i and top up 6k. And since tat 1st AML dealer is a nice guy, i ask him to get loan frm maybank for me and he do the rest of transfer and paperwork for the E46, so he can earn the comm.

On the nite i pass my stream to the other dealer, my wife nego wif the E46 seller to handover the car to us on the same nite as we hav no car, she agreed. We drove our last journey w our comfy MPV to her landed house, i was so excited. My wife handover 8k downpayment to her, and my wife drove the stream w my 2yo boy, i happily drive the E46. just few metres frm his house, the fan belt broke. The seller's husband agreed to repair for me, so in the end, we handover the stream, and took cab home.

The nxt day evening, i went to alexandra wif the seller's husband to collect the car, gd to go. Hwever haffway thru, broke dwn again. I called tow truck. The following day, my mech told me its fuel tank empty, but the fuel gauge spoilt, showing 1/4 left. So my mech fixed it.

That very nite, the seller wans to change her mind abt middleman (dealer). She doesnt wan dealer as she wans to deal w us directly. My wife therefore arrange the dealer n we go to her house w all necessary docs to let her sign to show sincerity. The couple were v reluctant in the 1st place as they afraid dealer wil run away w the money frm maybank. So I suggested writing a 38k post dated cheque to her. if the dealer dont pass her the 38k cheque frm Maybank, then she can claim frm me. So fair and square, she agreed. She passed her ic to dealer and we r ready to transfer ownership the nxt day.

I happily drive home the E46 w my wife, it was 10pm. I ask my wife go slp, while i wan to WASH the car swee swee!!! then suddenly my wife called me at 11pm, say the seller don feel safe and wans to take back her ic. i say WTF!!! NVM, the next day, the seller sms me says she wans me to get loan frm maybank myself!!! WTF again!!! evrything is almost done and she chooot pattern like that!!!wah i canot take it. I told her off and says I wil return her car n we call off the deal. she agreed. i took back 1k deposit and 8k downpayment.

So i was car-less, MPV gone, dream car gone... I took MRT w my wife n kid on weekends...

One day my wife says, the dealer got a WRX, good condition, many mods, ask me go see see. So we went. At west coast car mart, I saw a blue Rex, JDM 2.0 semi-auto. i can see that my wife reali needs a car, and the 2 agent kept pushing me persuading me. I initially gave excuses i got other cars to view. then they continue pushing, my wife kaypo say she got bring cheque book, can put deposit. then i LL kena presurrised, i agreed to place dep... Yes I like powerful car, Rex is good, but this one is fully mod w super loud Apexi Exos, bigger turbo, bigger intercooler, 4 defi, got the pssshhh sound, Boost control, lowered racing coilovers, CF front n rear bonnet n boot. Sibei thiong ah! For goodness i m a family man leh.... In the end sold my nice comfy MPV wif this kind of car...

i am damn sad and disapointed w my wrong wrong wrong moves... Reali sway... Now I am stucked with the Rex for at least 1 yr. its a super downgrade... but I everyday still surfing this forum and sgcarmart see got other E46 for sale,hehe... I will not give up my dream!!! I was so damn close, everyday I reali couldn't slp well. i felt so sori for my wife n kid to tahan the loud exos, no joke, its too loud... But i felt bad when my son asked, "Daddy, our car car leh?", then I told him, "Sori son, daddy sold off le...", the glad part is, my son replied, "Daddy, I like subaru..."... pengzzz ah.... anyway my son likes all sorts of cars...

Its a lesson learnt... dont be too rush into things. If time can go back, I will try to persuade the seller to proceed w the deal... haizzzz...

Any bro/sis, selling E46, I prefer renewed COE, year 2000/2001 model can be Pre FL or FL, Can be valvetronic, doesn't matter, as I going to drive for another 10 yrs,I hav lots of plans for it, it will b my classic mobile...

Thanks for reading...
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

At this juncture, given the increase in average bhp/torque on the road over the last 5 years, you will be glad you have picked Rex over a PFL e46 model..... not to mention the lingering problem you will face after at least 7-8 years.
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

ACS6;579676 said:
Sorry to hear that bro. My partner teared when the buyer took our car away. But when she heard of the new car, she couldn't stop giggling. Hope you will have a fairytale ending soon. And YES, keep searching. Perserverance pays off in the end.

i teared when the dealer drove my wrx away... but i grinned from ear to ear when i drove off in my 335 :lol2:
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

Hi Bro BMW to Subaru is not a downgrade. Its all in the mind. You make the car, the car does not make you. Take it easy. E46 is an awesome car and so is Subaru WRX.
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

With the problems u faced within 1-2 days of having that e46, I think it's a blessing that u didn't buy that car. There could potentially be more problems that u will cry.
塞uncle lose horse, actually it's fortune. Chinese say one.
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

I feel that you should have stuck to your guns and not give in to the dealer's pressure tactics. Even when your wife said hey I brought the cheque book. Nothing to feel bad about refusing the dealers' recommendations.

Buying a car is a major investment for most people, we do not give in to pressure tactics and then regret the purchase a short while later.

Another thing you should note, that its not a downgrade even if you have chosen the WRX, the WRX is a nice car and its way more powerful than the E46. As per what our fellow forummers have mentioned, its good that you did not buy that E46 as it had problems upon a short while after your collection.

Anyway, since you have already purchased the car, enjoy it first, then slowly take your time to get an E46 later. Buying a used car is a form of art and patience, take your time and you will be able to find a fine specimen at a reasonable price.

Cheers!
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

Wh0cArEs;579702 said:
i teared when the dealer drove my wrx away... but i grinned from ear to ear when i drove off in my 335 :lol2:

LOL....I grinned from ear to ear after test driving my new ride....still can't wipe that grin off. No wonder secretary thinks I'm being cheeky.
 
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ACS6;579732 said:
LOL....I grinned from ear to ear after test driving my new ride....still can't wipe that grin off. No wonder secretary thinks I'm being cheeky.

From your avatar, it seems your new ride is a ferrari, a 458 perhaps?? Mind posting some pictures??? I'm a picture whore :lol2:
 
Re: Sad story... BMW to WRX...

i salute you bro

you gave me a urge to go and hug my bmw now.
hope you have sweet bmw dreams everynight and eventually your dreams will come true.
 

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