95 year old Samsui woman believed to have killed herself ......

Red_Bean_Bun

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There is just no dignity for the aged in Singapore ....

95yr old who took own life over medical bills was the Samsui woman highlighted in 2007 NDR | The Real Singapore

The tragic story of 95 year old Lu Dai Hao came to light in September after the elderly lady took her own life due to not wanting to burden her family with her medical costs.

Lu Dai Hao had come to Singapore when she was around 18 years old and became a samsui woman after getting married.

It turns out that the lady was the Samsui woman who PM Lee had highlighted in the 2007 National day celebrations:

[video=youtube;EizZLw24x8o]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EizZLw24x8o[/video]

She was originally from Canton South but worked in Singapore for 42 years carrying bricks and sand around the construction sites in Singapore.

After she retired from that job, she helped her family to look after the children while working as a coffeeshop assistant managing odd jobs.

It was her children that convinced her to retire from this job after another 20 years as they were concerned about her safety and wellbeing.

However, Lu Dai Hao was very active and even in retirement, she often went out and caught buses and trains to do her shopping and everything.

She never had any real complaints and she was cheerful and quite healthy. Her family had never expected her to take her own life.

In July this year, she had fallen at her home and had subsequently needed to be hospitalised for 3 weeks.

Shortly afterward, she had fallen to her death. Her family believes that it was because she didn’t want to burden her children with more medical costs in future.

Her daughter, Fend Lun Ping, a 50 year old accountant said that her mother was a samsui woman who worked long without complaint. She explained how even her choice to take her life was for the sake of the family.

Lu Dai Hao, passed away on the 11th of September 2013 at around 5:30 pm.

In addition to the rising medical cost in Singapore, till now, there is no social safety net set up by the PAP government and the burden of healthcare would be instead passed from parents to their children.

Do you enjoy living in a country with no pension or welfare for its citizens? ($200 NTUC voucher or GST rebate is not considered actual welfare)
 
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Re: 95 year old Samsui woman believed to have killed herself ......

fugged up ...
 
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Only know SG is not a welfare state and will never be under the current regime.... the NTUC vouchers are just tokens and when used, it is right pocket to left pocket.

RIP.
 
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Red_Bean_Bun;1051318 said:
There is just no dignity for the aged ....
This is not an issue about medical care costs. Watch the video carefully. TRS uses anything and everything to whack the gahmen. Who is the one taking dignity away from the one who has passed?

Gahmen sometimes deserves the ccb. But not this case.
 
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Er... the video has nothing to do with her death le... its probably a NDP video years ago.

here got wanbao pic for u

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Re: 95 year old Samsui woman believed to have killed herself ......

Garmen ...doing
 
Re: 95 year old Samsui woman believed to have killed herself ......

Pity to the elderly...SG has provided multiple support, they only need to ask and register...nothing to burden on family...but only embarrassment when they ask for help...social pressure and discrimination is killing the people in SG not the government.
 
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Oh - I see that you are only concerned that its a publicity thing by TRS ?

Thanks for your empathy .... I hope you retire well.

Littlered;1051335 said:
This is not an issue about medical care costs. Watch the video carefully. TRS uses anything and everything to whack the gahmen. Who is the one taking dignity away from the one who has passed?

Gahmen sometimes deserves the ccb. But not this case.
 
Re: 95 year old Samsui woman believed to have killed herself ......

Oh my goodness :(. RIP :( :(
 
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Rip...................................................................
 
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manggi12;1051341 said:
Pity to the elderly...SG has provided multiple support, they only need to ask and register...nothing to burden on family...but only embarrassment when they ask for help...social pressure and discrimination is killing the people in SG not the government.

I thought so too, until I realised that even if you ask and ask, you may not receive help, especially if you are not so poor to have to go hungry, but not so rich that you can afford treatment for diseases like cancer.

One thing is the cost, another is the availability of treatment in public hospital. What can be treated immediately in a private hospitals (and increase your chance of survival or keeping an organ), may require the patient to wait for weeks or even months in the public hospitals. Not to mention that the diagnosis and proposed treatment from public and private hospital may be quite different.

E.g. if you have a kidney stone, one hospital may tell you that "your kidney spoil liao, must remove. You want I can schedule an operation for you, in...wait...oh, 5 weeks from now". The atas one will tell you, "kidney stone. Your kidney left 30% function only. If you remove the stone, we may be able to prevent the kidney from total failure. I will schedule an operation for you this thurs afternoon?".
Why such a difference? Don't ask me.
 
Re: 95 year old Samsui woman believed to have killed herself ......

love it another CCB govt thread. Nicole seah ftw!
 
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I think the crux of the issue is that we don't really have a public hospital. In the truest sense a public hospital should be a no frills, low cost hospital with funding largely from the state. This means c class wards , no air con etc to keep cost low.but can we accept this ?

Hospitals today are run as profit driven service oriented institutions. To keep things affordable the govt has various funding available for the ppl. But the onus is still on the person or family to seek help. How can the state justify taking care of a person with tax payers money if they still have a family that is financially comfortable?

It's impossible in my opinion to run a state of the art hospital with the best possible care and yet provide it at low cost or subsidize with taxpayers money in a low tax environment.

in this case I think the lady's value system of not wanting to be a burden is the reason for the suicide. The fact that she continued to work despite having children who are I assume financially comfortable (as an accountant). Fundamentally that I feel is the difference between the first generation of Singaporeans and those of tdy, the sense of self reliance and the view that getting help is a sign of weakness, this is as opposed to the climate where people feel that it's their entitlement to be given help.

just my opinion, pls don't call me stupid and I don't own spandex.
 
Re: 95 year old Samsui woman believed to have killed herself ......

In sg, anything bad happens is ccb gahmen. Standard
 
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" Got played out dating 2-3 men who were obviously more interested in my public profile than who I really was as a person."

Queue starts where? Wanna get in-line.
 
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she got fired by a company...CCB GAHMEN!!
 
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MW;1051403 said:
In sg, anything bad happens is ccb gahmen. Standard


including noisy tyres???












cheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeers
 
95 year old Samsui woman believed to have killed herself ......

ac323;1051443 said:
including noisy tyres???



Positive. Lousy roads like those behind the Istana kill suspension and cause tyres to be noisy!

Cheeeeerrssss.....


Littlered;1051417 said:
" Got played out dating 2-3 men who were obviously more interested in my public profile than who I really was as a person."

Queue starts where? Wanna get in-line.


Queuing in second spot. PM me her contact pls!
 

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