This time not being silly ,got something to ask.

[jess1]

Can a man and a woman have very good friendship and nothing elas?? Want to see what everyone say about this.

[hitmee]

can.

but the best is still friendship + a bit of courtship without crossing the line.

[Mockngbrd]

yes of course... just ask my sister summer *limp wrist*

[marklee]

1 question..is the girl or guy physically attractive?

[jess1]

Originally Posted by marklee

1 question..is the girl or guy physically attractive?

That a good question !!! no wonder i cant seem to find good friendship with men.

[centurion]

the best discussion on the subject:

From:


Harry Burns: You realize of course that we could never be friends.
Sally Albright: Why not?
Harry Burns: What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally Albright: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: You only think you do.
Sally Albright: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry Burns: No, what I'm saying is they all WANT to have sex with you.
Sally Albright: They do not.
Harry Burns: Do too.
Sally Albright: They do not.
Harry Burns: Do too.
Sally Albright: How do you know?
Harry Burns: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally Albright: So, you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry Burns: No. You pretty much want to nail 'em too.
Sally Albright: What if THEY don't want to have sex with YOU?
Harry Burns: Doesn't matter because the sex thing is already out there so the friendship is ultimately doomed and that is the end of the story.
Sally Albright: Well, I guess we're not going to be friends then.
Harry Burns: I guess not.
Sally Albright: That's too bad. You were the only person I knew in New York.

AND HERE's the KICKER!

Harry Burns: Would you like to have dinner?... Just friends.
Sally Albright: I thought you didn't believe men and women could be friends.
Harry Burns: When did I say that?
Sally Albright: On the ride to New York.
Harry Burns: No, no, no, I never said that... Yes, that's right, they can't be friends. Unless both of them are involved with other people, then they can... This is an amendment to the earlier rule. If the two people are in relationships, the pressure of possible involvement is lifted... That doesn't work either, because what happens then is, the person you're involved with can't understand why you need to be friends with the person you're just friends with. Like it means something is missing from the relationship and why do you have to go outside to get it? And when you say "No, no, no it's not true, nothing is missing from the relationship," the person you're involved with then accuses you of being secretly attracted to the person you're just friends with, which you probably are. I mean, come on, who the hell are we kidding, let's face it. Which brings us back to the earlier rule before the amendment, which is men and women can't be friends.

[axl]

Can but it helps that the other party is visually appealing to you, esp. coming from a guy's POV.

[centurion]

Originally Posted by axl

Can but it helps that the other party is visually appealing to you, esp. coming from a guy's POV.

axl don't bluff. Men screw women regardless of looks .... indiscriminate in their lust.

Male lust is blind, research suggests - Telegraph

[axl]

But I'm more discerning in my tastes Cent!

But they say.. beggers can't be choosers!

ADD: In the article... it says for the experiment, "the women were chosen on the basis of being moderately attractive for the student population.".. so my theory is correct after all.

[centurion]

Originally Posted by axl

But I'm more discerning in my tastes Cent!

But they say.. beggers can't be choosers!

the data is clear. When faced with women, any woman, Men are all liars, lechers, .... probably rapists.