This time not being silly ,got something to ask.

[jess1]

Originally Posted by hitmee

jess
i think u got it wrong. no one said woman joined this forum to look for sex./bf. may be someone gave u that impression.

the thread conclusion is hard for men to treat woman purely as a friend. there is a tendency for men to want to get physical with the woman. correct me if i am wrong.

hope you are not affected by some of the comments.

yes there`are some ppl here gave me the impressions. So they have pressed the wrong "button."

[OzKah]

Originally Posted by totoseow

on a more serious note.....cars have always interested more men than women. it is normal that as a car forum..this site will be more populated by men. cant expect all the foreign maids to be logging here to chit chat with u right?

er... why foreign maids??

[Orh LuLu]

Originally Posted by jess1

Guys !!!! when there are new women joining this forum doesnt mean they are looking for any sex relationship and most of them would rather meet in group and join the fun of chit chatting then having anything to do with the guys here !! so bare this in mind. tx. If not this forum will be just men and more men ..........................

Im getting confused here.. your question was :

Can a man and a woman have very good friendship and nothing elas??

why out of a sudden the "forum" comes into picture?

I dun, and seriously dun see anything wrong for gals or guys to come into a forum to look for a relationship and eventually landed in bed wat... as long as u do not break any forum rules.

i dun see anything wrong with a ALL men forum.

[edlms]

Originally Posted by axl

Jason, I think what you actually meant is, you want Ed's LOAD to be on you instead?

perverts!!! i know axl has been thinking of this for a long time... that's why i don't wear shorts during futsal when axl around... ha ha...
unless J has a sister... none of my loads will be coming close to any one of you... ha ha...

cheers

[jaskin]

Originally Posted by edlms

perverts!!! i know axl has been thinking of this for a long time... that's why i don't wear shorts during futsal when axl around... ha ha...
unless J has a sister... none of my loads will be coming close to any one of you... ha ha...

cheers

You better wear a thick shirt too.. Axl likes to give titty twisters ask Terry

[kenntona]

KNN this thread should never be started. The perspectives between men and women will always be different, even in a friendship. Just read the comments from male and female bloggers on this topic......

Star Blog

Now, which guy does not wanna be a James Bond?

[asther04]

Funny thread...
It's jus a discussion, dun get too serious...
Guys r known to "lust" afta almost any gals, this is a known fact. So, as gals ourselves, as long as we carry ourselves properly & draw a line when we need to, then i'm sure platonic frenships r possible. Sometimes we let ourselves get too comfortable with a male fren & in turn mislead them. We then say it's not possible to b frens with a guy? Tat's unfair to them as well. But if we can draw the line, a wonderful frenship can develope. It's nice to have a male fren, like a brother to "take care" of us. I have a few very close guy frens & it has been great for many years now. Not tat we have not been attracted to each other at one time or another, but we chose to stay as frens & now we r happy the way it is.
So is it possible? I think it is...........

[chinnie86]

Originally Posted by asther04

Funny thread...
It's jus a discussion, dun get too serious...
Guys r known to "lust" afta almost any gals, this is a known fact. So, as gals ourselves, as long as we carry ourselves properly & draw a line when we need to, then i'm sure platonic frenships r possible. Sometimes we let ourselves get too comfortable with a male fren & in turn mislead them. We then say it's not possible to b frens with a guy? Tat's unfair to them as well. But if we can draw the line, a wonderful frenship can develope. It's nice to have a male fren, like a brother to "take care" of us. I have a few very close guy frens & it has been great for many years now. Not tat we have not been attracted to each other at one time or another, but we chose to stay as frens & now we r happy the way it is.
So is it possible? I think it is...........

i agree..
i've 2 guy friends tt i hang out with most of my time in sch.. yet we remain simply as friends n we r really happy with e status quo... yupz, most impt is tt we know our limits..

[edlms]

asther and chinnie,
don't kid yourselves... the guys want to get into your pants - just no chance, yet, so they play "friends" until one day you break off/get drunk... unless they're gay.

really...
don't believe? just try to show some interest and see how the guy responds...

cheers

[asther04]

Haha edlms,
Tat's wat most ppl say... But i dare say i've bin thru all those with all my guy frens & we're still frens. Done the "got drunk", "broke up with bf" etc... They simply stood by me.
Not tat i dun agree w u completely, like i said, at one point or another, there's bound to b some form of attraction, it's a matter whether we took a step back & thought of the consequences then.
& asking us to "test" is asking for trouble... I know 99% of the guys out der will "respond" if tested. Tat's wat i'm getting at. We as gals, draw the line & dun throw temptations, the frenship is then possible.